Remaining Hopeful + Stoic Through a High Risk Pregnancy

A high risk pregancy, especially one following pregnancy loss, can easily turn a pregnancy experience into a time of ceaseless anxiety and worry. No one really knows the true risk of losing a child in the womb quite as well as a mother who has experienced such a loss. We are all too painfully aware of the risks and no matter how hard we try, we cannot go back to allowing ourselves a time of naivety and complete bliss. Sigh.
So the question remains. How in the world can we remain hopeful and stoic through a high risk pregnancy?!